我们错了 - One of us is wrong
2013-06-07 10:17
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赛斯·高汀(Seth Godin)的博客: http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2013/04/one-of-us-is-wrong.html
“我们错了,但不是我。” 每一个冲突的开始都是如此。
当所有人都认为你错了,指出其他人是错的是没有任何帮助的。因为你所说,你的客户/合作伙伴/对手是不会认同的。
对此,你能做的就是建立信任、理解和尊重。只有这样,你才有可能消除误解,并最终说服。
化解分歧需要我们先修建一座相互尊重的桥梁。一味地辩解,不仅以事无补,相反只会带来冲突。
“我们错了,但不是我。” 每一个冲突的开始都是如此。
当所有人都认为你错了,指出其他人是错的是没有任何帮助的。因为你所说,你的客户/合作伙伴/对手是不会认同的。
对此,你能做的就是建立信任、理解和尊重。只有这样,你才有可能消除误解,并最终说服。
化解分歧需要我们先修建一座相互尊重的桥梁。一味地辩解,不仅以事无补,相反只会带来冲突。
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