To be a leader, you first need to understand that people can not be changed.
2010-06-29 15:17
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作为一个leader,你是去领导别人,树立榜样,而不是去管理别人,或者改变别人,因为人是不容易被改变的,也是不愿意被改变的,而当你试着去改变一个人时,想象一下,换位思考你是那个被别人试着去改变的人,你会做的应该是本能的反抗。带来的后果是和组员的关系破裂,工作关系的恶化,导致的结果都有可能影响整个项目。
所以,第一条,作为一个leader,要学会去引导,千万不能去试着改变,将每个人改变成你心目中的那个组员,人不是程序,不可能完美,好比一个零件,你只有将其放在适当的位置上,他才能发挥出最大的作用,而你要是试着将其放在一个不适合的位置而抱着改变他的想法,那么后果可能就是造成机毁人亡的后果。
所以,第一条,作为一个leader,要学会去引导,千万不能去试着改变,将每个人改变成你心目中的那个组员,人不是程序,不可能完美,好比一个零件,你只有将其放在适当的位置上,他才能发挥出最大的作用,而你要是试着将其放在一个不适合的位置而抱着改变他的想法,那么后果可能就是造成机毁人亡的后果。
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